So a girl invited me to her house for snacks, asked me to sit on the couch with her so I'm more comfortable while we were watching a movie, asked me where I was going when I announced my intention to leave. I left without making a move and she ghosted me after that. I didn't even realize I was supposed to make a move until I made a post about it on this sub.
This is not the first time this is happening. On Valentine's day, a different girl invited me to her house, we had chocolate and watched a movie and I left afterwards. I was lucky to be invited for the second time and I would have left after the movie if she didn't say "I hope you're not planning to go back home this time"
How do I make a first move without turning out creepy or awkward and the girl is not uncomfortable? In this #metoo era, I can't be careful enough. Is it even possible to rectify my stupidity with the girl that ghosted me? Any advice or tip is appreciated and I'm particularly curious to read a woman's perspective on this.
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