I’ve gotten a few plates off of it in the past 6 months I’ve cycled through and have 3 now from it now (two of them I have 0 attraction to and the third is a hot unstable hoe with a 30+ n count who thinks we’re exclusive lmao) so it’s not like I’m struggling. The amount of time I’ve wasted talking to girls on the phone and texting them to get dates is pissing me off.

I have a backlog of like 30 girls I need to message and I went through their profiles to try and find something interest but I literally have motivation to message them and get rejected by 28-30 of them.

What’s the best opener I can use. I did hey xxx what’s up but girls conversational skills are so bad it only works like 1/50 times.

However 30 girls = more opportunity.

Also my sister is meeting one of her friends from hs she hasn’t talked to in years and I randomly matched with her a few weeks ago and never messaged. My sister said she’d try to set us up but does that seem like I’m too much of a pussy to reach out? In hs all my sisters friends thought I was a super skinny unattractive face and body beta (I’m so much different now).

Any advice would be nice?