Met this girl a couple weeks ago, we've fucked a couple times. The first couple weeks I held frame excellently. When I asked to see her, she said yes immediately. She would also be frequently asking to meet up with me.

A couple of weeks go by, and I don't see her due to me being busy and hungover. Admittedly, I start to get a little desperate and fear of loosing this HB9 I've been fucking. I ask to meet her a couple times to which she gives excuses to, and I even asked her a third time to meet me the next Sunday (today) for a "maybe" reply. She's now in control, I'm basically her orbiter.

I've ignored her all weekend since getting the "maybe" response about this Sunday. Today, she texts me saying "I want to see you today"(basically means to fuck) but I ignore it and she follows up with a blunt "ok nvm I take it back don't wanna see u anymore"

Do I continue to ignore or tell her that I'm busy with no explanation? I'm not busy, but I don't want to be running around whenever she snaps her fingers and I want to pull her back into my frame. I'm sure she's still very much attracted to me, but she knows that she's in control here and I want it back onto my terms instead of hers.