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How do I respond to tinder match (HB8) shit test after she agrees to meet?

bigtoeneedhelp
July 5, 2020
12 upvotes
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"how do I know you're not a weirdo?"

Edit: I'm asking because I already fucked it completely and I'm just trying to learn where I went wrong. God why is it always five minutes after I send a shit response a better response comes into my head

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Title How do I respond to tinder match (HB8) shit test after she agrees to meet?
Author bigtoeneedhelp
Upvotes 12
Comments 29
Date July 5, 2020 3:17 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
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Comments

[–]spitonyouronionrings35 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

this worked for me:
" We meet, and if you think I'm a weirdo; you walk away. But, If you like me, drinks on you."
Pretty fun night

[–]TreatonOCE25 points26 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

"I'll leave the zip ties and ball gag in the car"

Idk man, you can reverse the rolls and ask how you should know she ain catfishing you lol

God speed 😁

[–]ie11_is_my_fetish8 points9 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

right that's a concern of mine, show up and dudes jump you

[–]TreatonOCE4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Shit like that concerns me, so I always meet somewhere very public. Preferably in or near shopping centre. Like a nice cafe

[–]ie11_is_my_fetish3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

That's smart, the other concern is MLM pitch lmao

Had that happen to me(from a dude) I met from a meet up event

[–]TreatonOCE1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Had to google mlm 🤣 how does that happen in a dating scenario?

[–]ie11_is_my_fetish1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

no this was just a guy I met at a business networking event, trying to make friends like "yo bro, let's make a start up" and he starts asking me about marketing and if I want to make a lot of money like wtf man... gave me hope.

[–]TreatonOCE1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Met those type of people, best is to distance yourself from people like that. Shits just stressful aye 🤣

[–][deleted]  (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]TreatonOCE0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

U mean lockdown? Here in Australia were back to living normally.

[–]bigtoeneedhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

It was a pretty sketch meet up. Basically I've talked to her with literally one or two messages over the span of months. You know, treating her as if she were a HB5. Then today/yesterday I started nofap and quit a bunch of other bad habits so my brains dopamine demand just skyrocketed. I sent her a message saying "so when are we going to meet" She said "I just got into town and I'm lying in bed". I said "thats funny because I'm lying in bed too, we should do it together". She agreed, then after agreeing to meet me in a sketch af park she proceeded with the above shit test. Eventually she said lets move it to another date because I'm tired. I tried to pressure it more like a retard instead of just saying 'we can do that'. Eventually it ended on her saying "lemme know when you're in town again and we can meet". I said "sure, goodnight 🥰" (bad emoji i know I'm mentally disabled), and she said "sweet dreams".

Ive given up on that prospect, I'm not going to write to her anytime soon. We started strong but I feel like she slipped from my grasp because of my poor replies later on in the convo. I'll hail Mary it on Friday if she's in town and ask her to meet me. But fml I need more practice.

[–]TreatonOCE1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Dude that sucks, bad luck. As you know they get tons of messages from all kinds of guys ( yes even the fugly ones) best is to move on. But I get the dopamine shortage, honestly besides physical exercise and looking at how to make money I have no advice to give 😅. Time is money after all, you should value yours at the highest stake. 👑

[–]bigtoeneedhelp[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'll go hard in the gym over the next month and then maybe pop up to her again

[–]TreatonOCE1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds good, just keep it very subtle I guess... No macho or general fkboy talk 😅

[–]silvereddi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’ll gladly take your advice on money

[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"You can leave" is laconic and powerful

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Taken from a classic post from RP's heyday "Talking With Women - Always DARE, Never DEER"

Deflect - "why is that what you like"

Amplify - "i definitely am a weirdo"

Repeat - "how do you know im not a weirdo"

Exit - wait for her to double text

[–]silvereddi-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Can u give example with a convo

[–]1HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

" I'll only tie you up and gag you after you give consent of course"

[–]BornShook0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Don't overthink it bro. She was probably just leading you on, and would've just flaked on you at the last second anyway even if she did agree to a date and didn't give you this shit test

[–]zlodej87-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I hold a certificate saying "not weirdo"

[–]RepresentativeMood2-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I just say "thats easy, I am"

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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