I'm not a Nice Guy in the ways I behave but working through NMMNG showed me, that my core beliefs are the textbook example of a Nice Guy.

  • I have a deep need for validation
  • I dislike doing things for myself
  • I abandoned my goals and dreams somewhere in my youth
  • I am too anxious/negative to allow myself to have dreams and needs
  • I am risk aware to a point it hurts
  • I can't live my feelings, no matter how hard I try
  • I have no interest in connecting with men, nor do I have a reason to do so; I don't understand other men

I'm an empty shell of a man and I have no idea what to do.

I already lift and have my grooming/hygiene mostly in check.