If you have good game, if you're great at rapport building and all that, if the girl isn't interested in you, I don't think it's going to go well.

How does one create interest in order to get the other person hooked and start investing in you?

Like you can just say less and then she will just have to talk more about herself, less about you more about yourself. It's one thing to be interested in the other person, but how can you make them invest in you and talk about themselves more rather than you occupying the empty pauses?

I'm also not just talking about women exclusively, also for men and friendship building.