Not just for dates but when you made promise with your friends as well.

If I made plans with someone, but suddenly I feel like “Fuck I should be doing something more important today (like business and personal projects)”. But at the same time “Fuck I want to be a man and keep my promise and integrity. Plus I don’t wanna destroy this social circle”.

I’m the type of person who can only focus on one thing, when I’m interested in something you can guarantee my 100% attention is in that business and have no interest in meeting a girl or doing anything else that day. But I feel bad as well with my bros if I flake them

tldr; I know this is indecisiveness but how do you guys decide if it’s worth flaking or not?