How do you get better at passing shit tests

themostgianthorse · 2021-06-19T19:14:27+00:00

How I do this is to remember that every woman is always qualifying to me.

I’m in an LTR. Got a shit test last week. My girl came home and her friends asked her to meet up at a small wine bar because one of them had a “big announcement.” I told her to go and have fun. She comes home and says “ ooo I still got it. This guy was trying to pick me up!” I smile and ask “ well was he cute?!” She laughs and then proceeds to tell me she spent the whole evening talking to her girlfriends about me bla, bla bla.” We fucked a few minutes later.

You must remember to- - DARE and try not to DEER - you are the prize - women qualify to you. Not the other way around. - amuse mastery

AmphibiSloth · 2021-06-19T19:11:05+00:00

Get yourself a little more relaxed before going in (this helps limber your mind and keeps it flexible). When you go in, don’t go in with a plan. Because if you do and things don’t work out the way you imagined, you’re going to stumble.

Also, might want to change your objective - you should be going in to have fun and entertain yourself. If you don’t get her number or bring her home, it’s fine - she’s just another person. You don’t know her and she doesn’t know you. Whether you succeed or fuck up, it wouldn’t matter. It’s effects aren’t lasting nor will they affect other areas of your life.

AshyLarry27 · 2021-06-19T22:37:49+00:00

Experience. It's like anything. Just continue to be aware. No one is perfect right out of the gate with this stuff.

Your brain has a subconscious piece that is designed to take in large swaths of vital information as you go about your day. It adapts to situations as well for you. This is felt through the "gut feelings" you have when making decisions. Your brain will guide you to the right decision. It's like if an intimidating biker looking guy is walking down the street in your direction. You feel uncomfortable because your subconscious has stored memories seen from tv shows or movies where every biker guy is just some rough bully-like figure. This guy walking in your direction could be the nicest guy in the world but you don't know that. This function is built into your brain for survival and adaptation.

The same will go with women. As your brain understands the general social dynamics of interacting with the opposite sex, you will become more of a natural at combating shit tests. Just stop treating every girl you talk to as "the one I NEED TO KEEP" and be willing to let her go. In doing so you take the pressure off yourself to "avoid screwing this up." More interactions with girls, hitting on them at bars/clubs, ect will translate to something more natural. Like driving a car. The first time you get in, you are overwhelmed by needing to adapt to spacial awareness of the vehicle and how much pressure you apply to the gas and brakes. Eventually it becomes second nature. It's the same thing with anything you master, including talking to girls

JayRedCorn · 2021-06-19T19:42:49+00:00

Masculine frame

papunigga031 · 2021-06-20T03:15:36+00:00

By caring less about passing shit tests

Title	How do you get better at passing shit tests
Author	Da_SnowLeopard
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	June 19, 2021 6:28 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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