How do you handle a physically abusive LTR?

wanker7171 · 2019-11-12T10:50:41+00:00

You don’t “handle” anything, you next the bitch

sjswander94 · 2019-11-12T12:39:12+00:00

You don’t. Abusive bitch? Poof ! Your gone next....

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-11-12T10:41:42+00:00

Leave her. You’re a king, you deserve better

DullIntroduction · 2019-11-12T10:42:34+00:00

Soft/hard next. Even if you can physically handle her without hurting her, it would backfire. In any case, you do not have to indulge such behavior.

chemical-miracle · 2019-11-12T11:21:41+00:00

Leave.

DoesItMatterTooYou · 2019-11-12T14:54:14+00:00

What a bunch of excuses. GET THE FUCK OUT NOW. Even if it means leaving 100% of your shit there and never going back.

Either swallow the red pill and choke on the blue one clearly stuck in your throat.

This only gets worse and you will always lose the battle. Stop making lame excuses.

2019-11-12T11:24:38+00:00

don't be a mangina and do stick your dick in crazy but never LTR crazy.

KirthWGersen · 2019-11-12T14:30:02+00:00

Document, record and leave. Record a confession over the phone when she initially calls crying to get you back.

The reason is that she is likely mentally unstable. She may twist it around in her mind and accuse you of being the violent one and actually believe it. She may also say that the bruises on her arms and legs come from you hitting her not her hitting you.

Chadster113 · 2019-11-12T14:49:55+00:00

“But I love her”

FereallyRed · 2019-11-12T18:44:00+00:00

Hard no.

hoopingblob · 2019-11-12T18:49:02+00:00

Slap her or next her. I'd do both tbh. Whatever suits you

NightwingTRP · 2019-11-12T13:34:19+00:00

Firstly you're probably getting it because you issue "warnings" instead of instructions. A warning is basically a dare to challenge your dominance and she's seen you're weak. Every time she does it and you respond with nothing that affects her other than further empty words is another nice clear demonstration of how weak you are.

Secondly, ANY physical violence of any kind receives a single "do not do that" order and if repeated EVER an immediate and permanent hard next. There are examples of the police arresting men because their women attacked them. You do not win under any circumstances once things get violent. Therefore this is an area where you do not play and you do not give any ground. No ifs, no buts.

Title	How do you handle a physically abusive LTR?
Author	lolomotif12
Upvotes	0
Comments	35
Date	November 12, 2019 10:35 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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