- How do you fight against the urge to hunt, meet new girls?
- How would you ever convince yourself that she is "the one"?
I am 35yo have a girlfriend for the last 4 years and on the paper she is perfect: n-count = 1 (me), smiler, kind, hot (done modelling), cute, all my friends love her (some are jealous).
But on the other hand I'm hesitating a lot. She's quite weak physcially and I don't want weak kids (though she's 5'4 tall). She's Asian and I'm not sure I want mixed kids. She has given up journalism career to make music and isn't trying hard enough (she's talented but I'm very frustrated when I wake up in the morning and stays in bed until late). So we have a really sweet relationship but I don't see a future as we are not "growing".
On one hand I'd like to be with a sporty girl who has a job (and an income) a bit like mine, on the other hand I feel like I'll miss her because AWALT and I'll never find a nice and non jaded girl like her. So I need to give up on something...
Also I had never been in such a long LTR before and I like to flirt etc. I miss it. Never got a chance to play with Tinder etc.
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