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How do you reject a chick without her hating you?

bigtoeneedhelp
May 21, 2021
3 upvotes
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Is it even possible? Maybe its better to just leave her hanging in limbo until she gets bored and moves on.

every time i have tried it has always ended with the chick despising me and trying to sabotage my future plates.

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Title How do you reject a chick without her hating you?
Author bigtoeneedhelp
Upvotes 3
Comments 17
Date May 21, 2021 8:19 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
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Comments

[–]WHATTHEDECKK 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a outcome dependent question

[–]1KirthWGersen 5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

A girl you haven't slept with and have no intention of sleeping with?

Just say, "You seem like a really nice person, but you are I'm afraid you are not my type."

A girl you have slept with but don't want to continue to sleep with?

Say, "I like you but I don't really feel a true connection between us and I need to follow my heart. I think it would take a better man than me to draw out your true self."

Any old bullshit along the lines of "It's not you, it's me."

If that doesn't work, try: "I'm going through a really bad patch emotionally at the moment, and I don't feel I can get involved with anyone right now. Sorry."

[–]MatingAdvice 9 points10 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

They hate rejection. I would just act beta and blue-pilled as possible so they get tired of me and then revert back to the redpill ways.

[–]ChadCyrus 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This, works ridiculously well.

[–]AssassiN18 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is how I got rid of a crazy

[–]iaurtgl 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Does this actually work? What’s the expected timeframe? I need to drop a girl who I live with

[–]MatingAdvice 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ask her to marry you, but that could backfire. You know the girl better than me so act accordingly.

You don't need a guide to be beta. Regarding the timeframe, it's relative, too many variables.

Also, next time vet properly. You don't give out cohabitation like it's free candies to any hoe.

[–]iaurtgl 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think I’d end up in a marriage if I said that.

True, I guess from the perspective that we’re all BP naturally so it’s not a lot of work.

[–]2319Skew 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It works but she needs to have options. If you're her best option then she'll switch you from AF to BB and you'll be her ATM.

If she's got options then the moment you go soft and BP you'll start to push her to a Chad to cheat with or to "steal" her away.

I'd say couple of weeks to a month or so.

[–]MrNeverDryDick 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Regardless of what form, women can’t handle rejection.

I’ve found that eventually if you keep her in limbo she will eventually attempt to make you jealous to try and build her attraction up. If you act like you’re a little disgusted by her action and distance yourself it helps.

In her mind she thinks she’s “won” by making you jealous but you get to leave the situation. Chances are she’ll cling to whatever guy she can bc she thinks it’s affecting you. Viola you’re free from her.

[–]OptimisticalRanger 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just tell her in a mature adult way. Like you would tell a child that they can't eat candy. If she reacts emotionally then this is the last you need to deal with their nonsense!

[–]bazima 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

keep being friends with her

[–]jjj2576 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a “I Give Too Many Fucks” Question.

[–]ycthrow 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It depends on the girl and how hard they put themselves out there.

[–]rp_redneck 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You stop trying to control what other people feel.

[–]usedtimecapsule 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You act beta around her and let her reject you. It worked for me.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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