I think it's normal to get (at least a little bit) of the vibe of the other person you're talking to. If she's playful, I get more playful and we're feeding each other to an endless loop and so's the case with other moods.

For instance, I like asian girls but generally they're shy so I can't be as playful as I am with a very energetic girl who's approaching me. Although now that I'm writing this I get it that it's also on how much she submissing herself - if the asian girl is shy but I can see it in her eyes that she's interested, I can be playful

So: how do you shift the conversation to a playful mood? Last night I met a girl at a party who was interested in me and would follow me around but the discussion was all about her interviewing me - questions about my social life and shit at first but then she tried getting into deep discussions. I was stoned and had no drive for a cheeky joke so that was it but it may be the case in the future

Questions:

  1. Title

  2. How do you avoid those deep philosophical questions? I want to

  • keep my aura of mystery
  • don't step into her frame by talking, rather have her talking
  • don't wanna be 'boring' by avoiding the question and possibly ending the discussion