How exactly does a woman's attraction to a man work? I feel its somewhat complicated.

_the_shape_ · 2020-08-06T05:16:43+00:00

Guys are simple. We see a hot girl and we want to fuck.

Girls can be surprisingly simple too if they're attracted enough to a guy. Comically, they're typically pretty simple too to the guys on the complete opposite end of the totem pole. Why? Because their pity and disgust is so palpable that even they tend to get the message loud and clear. They're more complex to the uninitiated and every other average joe-schmoe who finds himself among the middle of the pack.

For a man to attract a woman I feel there's more tests you have to pass.

These are the average men I'm referring to. They won't get the "fuck no" that the bottom of the barrel are so brutally used to, nor will they get the instant green light that the top tier men are accustomed to. Once you get a taste for women making it easy for you, you'll tend to find most of these stupid tests as something beneath you. If you find that interpretation too narcissistic, at least comprehend the tests to mean that she's lukewarm about you at best, meaning you get to choose: to continue to jump through her hoops until she decides to 'let you inside', or next her and keep playing until you find a girl who's clearly much more into you.

You can flash money and have expensive stuff but that might not be enough. You might be a good looking handsome dude but its still not good enough. You could have the personality she likes but its not good enough.

This has to do with you having to make peace with the fact that there are some girls out there that don't care what you bring to the table. You could have enough money to laugh at Jeff Bezos' bank account. You could have a 17 inch dick. You could be 6'3" 230 lbs. at 5% bodyfat, and none of that would be enough to win her over.

I'm pretty sure as a guy I need to prove that I'm worthy of taking care of her children but that might be more subjective than your bank account because not every girl goes for the money.

No, who told you that? That's setting yourself up to be her human wallet. Has little to nothing to do with getting her panties moist.

I just want to know what the hell they're looking for so I can increase my attractiveness.

Judging from your post, I'd say your ultimate goal ought to be learning how to flip the script and vetting them to see if they are good enough for you. Eat that sidebar up in the meantime, but keep that in the back of your mind as you read.

wanker7171 · 2020-08-06T05:18:19+00:00

For a man to attract a woman I feel there's more tests you have to pass.

Well it depends on how many options she has, which is the same with us guys. We become pickier about specific looks in a similar way that girls become pickier about certain traits. Like my gf in high school was hot as fuck and yet I was BPed out of my mind with a best friend she fantasized about fucking, but she was so quiet and "weird" that everyone avoided her. I was her only option so she settled.

You can flash money and have expensive stuff but that might not be enough. You might be a good looking handsome dude but its still not good enough. You could have the personality she likes but its not good enough.

You're not looking at this the right way. Remember girls use sex to get validation from guys, it's a tool to get our investment. So for a girl to want your investment you have to offer some sort of value that is meaningful to her. Now having money and looking attractive gives you a certain amount of value by itself but if this girl has eight other well off sexy guys dming her she's not going to give a fuck if that's all you have to offer.

chazthundergut · 2020-08-06T06:19:10+00:00

Yes, there are more tests for men. That's because the biological cost of procreation is high for women, so they must protect their investment.

But it is still simple: Become the prize, and the women will chase you.

cydestiny · 2020-08-06T06:21:46+00:00

I'm pretty sure as a guy I need to prove that I'm worthy of taking care of her children but that might be more subjective than your bank account because not every girl goes for the money.

This is coming from a basis that your goal is a monogamous relationship and is what the gynocentric social construct is trying to sell man. You get to keep her if you work hard enough.

Man's attractiveness is unlike woman, bounded to the sexual side only. Man's attractiveness come from different prospect depending on which phase the woman is in. In general, alpha behavior attract woman sexually while beta behavior attract woman who wants security.

That being said, by increasing your SMV, your alphaness, you will inevitably have higher chance to attract woman who wants you sexually. But if you zoom in to a localize sense, you want to attract that ONE woman for a exclusive relationship, you can't by just acting alpha/beta, you need act according to her needs. And even if you did everything correctly, she can still reject you because of anything, since she gets to choose.

By doing so, you're comprising to woman's hypergamy, you gave up your right to choose. Can you still be happy? Sure maybe, but you don't get to decide that anymore.

SMV is a very shallow estimation of attraction as attraction is fluid, it can change anytime. But it can useful to somewhat keep track of your progress and for discussion purposes.

RabbidMan · 2020-08-06T08:31:39+00:00

It's all about your vibe and energy that attracts them. But you need to be the opposite to their feminity. And it has to be natural, not faked. Alot of men have feminine traits but so do women. The key is to find and pursue women that put you in your natural masculine energy, causing her to be in her natural feminine energy. I literally had a married lesbain couple telling me how handsome I was, had one staring at my dick. The other started getting jealous due to her wife flirting but also her not getting attention and I gave her some love too. Almost had another another threesome, maybe next time. But regardless, my confidence and natural masculine traits that I express purely off of instinct put them into their that put them feminine energy...I bet they had a interesting ride home after the bars closed. Anyway...Once you understand that. Getting women is easy and you can literally choose not to focus on pussy (major distraction, fun and pleasurable but a waste of time) due to getting alot of pussy and threesomes like me. :D Hope this helps.

Title	How exactly does a woman's attraction to a man work? I feel its somewhat complicated.
Author	bayfarm
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Date	August 6, 2020 4:47 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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