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How long does a 30/31 y.o. girl keep trying hard to lock you down if you don't commit?

October 25, 2016
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Say you're dating/plating a 30/31 y.o. girl who is good looking, no tattoos, educated, relatively sane, and treats you like a king. She is very likely treating you well because she knows her biological clock is running out and wants to lock you down, get pregnant, etc. But if you don't commit, how long is she going to keep being your plate? I imagine she would eventually decide to find some beta bucks who'll commit faster.

Curious to hear of any experiences with this.

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Title How long does a 30/31 y.o. girl keep trying hard to lock you down if you don't commit?
Author InscrutablePUA
Upvotes 1
Comments 10
Date October 25, 2016 11:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

But if you don't commit, how long is she going to keep being your plate?

At the point at which the opportunity cost of staying with you is greater than the investment of going out, finding a new guy who has just as good a job as you, fucks her as good as you, AND is willing to commit.

It's that simple.

[–]InscrutablePUA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Totally agree - the timeframe depends on how high value YOU are as a man and her other options.

[–]zboo1h1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why is she 30 and single if she's so damned traditional and feminine?

[–]InscrutablePUA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My point exactly - she's probably putting on a facade of being feminine, traditional, and caring but is doing so in order to lock down a high value man.

[–]AlfredApple0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Let's say you need a gaming system to be happy for the rest of your life. If your bank account was being magically halved every month and there was no way for you to put more money in it, wouldn't you want to buy a new PC asap before you ran out of money?

[–]InscrutablePUA[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

In my case this girl has been my plate for 6 months during which time I'm confident she hasn't been fucking around. I'm wondering when she's going to demand more commitment from me (I'm not going to give to her)

[–]Willow-girl0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I would guess that if she hasn't already pushed you for commitment, she probably doesn't see you as LTR material. I was single at that age and had a few FWBs I fooled around with while looking for Mr. Right. So I'd say you're safe as long as Mr. Right doesn't pop up on her radar! It's also possible that she is happy being single and isn't looking for anything long-term. Has she actually mentioned wanting to get married and have kids?

[–]InscrutablePUA[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks for the comment!

Has she actually mentioned wanting to get married and have kids?

She hasn't mentioned marriage but in passing said that she wants her kids to speak Vietnamese implying that she wants kids eventually. Interestingly, I came inside her once when the condom broke earlier in our relationship but she took Plan B because getting pregnant would 'ruin' her (her words).

[–]Willow-girl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well there ya go. If she is not actively pressing for a commitment, I wouldn't worry about it. Don't make trouble where none exists.

[–]Peter_B_Long0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you display beta bucks characteristics, then she will seek commitment. If you're trying to keep her as a plate, maybe you can display 90/10 ratio alpha/beta. If she pushes for commitment, say that you really like her and a future with her is something you are considering for the future, but that you don't want to move too fast, or some shit.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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