Going on a date with a girl from hinge tomorrow. However there is a dent in the plans. My original plan was to pick her up and we were going to go to the beach around sunset. However I will not be able to use my car tomorrow because my mom is using hers and mine for a church camping trip. My mom will be gone overnight and said I am free to invite whoever. However I see a few problems.

  1. My mom no longer lives in our house I grew up in and bought a 1 bd condo the moment me and the rest of my siblings moved out. I am worried this girl will judge me for living back home in a small place. I currently sleep on the pull out couch. I also grew up in an extremely wealthy city known for its snobbery and she lives in the biggest mansion part of it. I am worried that she will judge or be weirded out. Its a nice condo, just a lot smaller then her place for sure.
  2. I don't know if she is comfortable coming directly over. I brought up watching and movie and she said she would be down but I already set picking her up and going to the beach. We live right by a lake so I could suggest there but I feel like it will be weird going around sunset (just seems like a creepy vibe) especially since I live on the way less busy side. I could go to the busy side but it would be a long walk.

Reason why I am in this predicament is because I brought a girl over last Saturday off hinge who was also rich and I could tell she thought I was a loser based on how I lived. She actually made up a terribly bad excuse that I thought was hilarious to cut the date early. Glad I forever have a story to tell to my buddies.

How should I proceed? Should I just go fuck it and ask her?

I also don't give a fuck about banging on the first date. I just don't want her to feel like a slut tbh. Easiest way to push a girl away in my experience. My fwb is already spending the night tomorrow anyway so its not like I'll be terribly upset but its nice to new and other options. Gotta take what we can get off dating apps as guys.

Also if anyone gives me crap about moving back home, I got laid off from my investment banking job in April and was denied unemployment twice. Been living off my savings and could no longer afford my place in LA. Been doing everything to stay afloat.

She also doesn't know I'm unemployed and still thinks I'm an ib analyst who moved back home temporarily because my lease ended at the beginning of this month. So I'm in the clear with that.

Tldr: I went to a liberal arts school and was a social science major. I tend to overwrite then underwrite.