Matched with a girl on hinge and hit ip a few days later. Started texting on hinge on the Christmas. We were supposed to hang out this pst weekend on the 2nd but she just moved (she sent me pics of the new place so she suggested the 9th. We’ve been texting back and forth since I got her number on the 28th.
I put her texts on do no disturb so I’m not tempted to respond right away. Been taking a whole day to respond but she tends to respond right away. The conversation is starting to get boring.
She’s also decently attractive so im sure she’s texting tons of other good looking guys.
In these situations what is the best way to deal with these situations. I’ve had this situation twice, first time (beginning of lockdown) I over contacted and we ended up speaking 4 hrs a day on the phone for weeks and developed severe oneitis and we never hung out cuz she ghosted me. The second time I drew out and responded a few times a day but it was with a younger college girl (who was back home) less attractive then me and it led to a date and a 2 month plate. But she was less attractive looks and race wise.
The last thing she texted me was about her at the beach in a bikini so maybe I say something flirty?
I’m awful at texting. I tend to talk way too much on calls and ramble. Once I get to the date I’m completely fine.
