How to be an alpha in the room?

i-reddit-ck · 2021-01-04T04:10:58+00:00

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AlarmingFacts · 2021-01-04T03:29:44+00:00

Stop being a bitch, you are your own person, you have to truly not give a fuck and be who you want to be

SENDMECODES42069 · 2021-01-04T08:11:08+00:00

You will not be the alpha in the room as a 5'7 asian guy. Doing things to try to assert dominance over bigger guys is gonna make you look like an idiot with a Napoleon complex.

Just have fun and make friends. try to be likable and charismatic, it will take you waaayyyyy farther than trying to punk out others for no reason.

psychic_goat · 2021-01-04T04:36:42+00:00

You've been conditioned since childhood to believe that you're 'less' assertive than a white fella, just like white people have been conditioned to believe they're less physically adept as a black guy. We all reinforce these stereotypes, which is why as an asian dude you probably feel a bit of resistance from society every time you've tried to act assertive, because people subconsciously don't identify with it and push you down. This is also a blessing, if you overcome this hardship people will respect you more. Just like if a white guy manages to beat Usain Bolt at a 100m sprint, people respect and revere him more for transcending his stereotype. Use your stereotype to your advantage, assert your intelligence and intellect over others, you won't be met with much resistance if you do socially speaking because an asian guy is expected to be smarter than a white guy. Have your wits about you and you'll be seen as the alpha in the room.

amwfhunter · 2021-01-04T05:59:55+00:00

Asian here. Ok first bro, it bugs me to see Asian guys have such inferiority complexes. Dude, just start conversations and not care about their judgement. That is how you get to know them and the group altogether. I mean why did you join this group to begin with. Obviously you must have had a purpose.

You cant change your height, but can change your character. Look im also a Christian so talk about Christian related things if they are religious to break the ice. Then use it as an opportunity to learn about them, listen and observe. Use that data to find common interests. Please don't end up like some losers I see on other groups that claim white guys step on them and that society is against them. Victim mentality at its finest. And when you're successful they call u an uncle chan coz you're a sell out. It is total bs. First step to being alpha is to be master of your own domain and yourself. It is only then that you can become master of others. This applies to any man. Regardless of race.

I am sick of Asian dudes trying to play the pity card. That is beta as hell and you wonder why many chicks don't go for Asian dudes. Most of it has to do with mentality. Asian culture in general unless youre from upper class or gangster class (oddly enough thugs are universally alpha regardless of race) caters to beta behavior. Probably because most Asians are raised by their moms which is the same as being raised by a single mom without the fuckery of entitlement that a North American single mom has.

Be genuine. You need to speak up and be assertive but do so once you get to actually know people more. It is against some red pill principles but I am also accounting for the fact that you are Asian is like you are travelling into a foreign country. So first understand the lay of the land and its people before conquering it. Read the art of War. Chinese classic to help.

scissor_me_timbers00 · 2021-01-05T10:46:18+00:00

Yeah “trying” to be the alpha in the room is the totally wrong mindset in this circumstance. Just be sociable.

Mma_bora · 2021-01-04T08:27:11+00:00

You already lost by asking this question, sorry bro but alphas don't ask these questions on a online forum. Pretty sure you will never be the alpha unless you find some anime minecraft friendgroup.

Stop thinking about autistic shit like this and behave like a normal human being and try to connect with other people.

Title	How to be an alpha in the room?
Author	i-reddit-ck
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	January 4, 2021 3:07 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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