Alright, so... I do have a tendency of overthinking things at work. I know it's not "alpha" to worry about other people. But, I dunno, I feel like you gotta sort of check yourself from time to time.

So, a new girl started at work a couple weeks ago. Very cute, a coworker thought we had chemistry and suggested I make a move. I did, just asked if she wanted to walk next door to grab lunch, super casual. Turned me down, no worries either way. I figured "Actually this is good, it keeps from wonder if I should make a move, now I can just keep it super casual". I shot my shot and missed, no hard feelings.

Except... I feel like now, I dunno, she seems to give off sort of a weird vibe. Hard to put into words; like, her body language seems to sort of be almost like "I want to get away from this person". I don't know, it's just strange.

I'm normally pretty talkative around my office; it's probably more women than men, but with the exception of two guys (both complete tools), I pretty regularly strike up conversation or joke around. I hadn't even realized I was that chatty, until new girl seems to almost avoid me.

My thinking was just "Be cool, it's only weird if you make it weird, just treat her like any of the other girls in the office". But I also don't want to be an asshole that makes work uncomfortable for someone just starting (which I guess it could be argued I already have) I'm admittedly a little intimidating, so... I dunno.

Any feedback or insight you guys might offer?