He's my friend on discord and he has hacked my computer (he somehow sees who I'm talking to and can read my DM's to other people). I don't mind him that much, and in fact, I kinda feel sad that he's obsessed with me.

I don't wanna go to law enforcement unless I feel threatened or scared of him. I know he has probably broken the law but I still consider him a friend, and in fact he has shared stuff with me about other people he has hacked. (such as telling me people are talking about me behind my back)

I found out yesterday he has me as his phone wallpaper which I thought was hilarious. My question is do I just "live and let live" and just be cool with him like everything is A-O-K or should I set boundaries and let him know he needs to quit hacking people and distance myself from him?

My gut instinct tells me the guy is harmless, but I've never had an obsessive stalker before. He hasn't done anything to harm me yet, but my gut instinct tells me one day I might not give him enough attention that he wants from me, and therefore he might begin doing screwy things to me.

My gut instinct for now tells me everything is fine but to make a reddit thread asking for advice from smart, cool guys like my TRP bros.

Thank you,

Mundane-Violinist