How to deal with abandonment issues?

June 28, 2019
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As a kid my parents didn't want me so my grandparents took care of me. They were better than my biological parents in every way but one day they had to move across state and I had to stay with my biological parents. I never really ended up forming a deep connection with my parents.I have come to realize that this has impacted my ability to form close intimate relationships for fear of abandonment. I have been spining plates but long to experience a deep connection with someone without fear. I always fuck up potential relationships once intimacy increases by either withdrawing, finding imaginary flaws in order to not commit to the other person, or just acting petty as soon as the first sign of trouble begins. A girl i was dating withdrew as soon as i started to back off as the relationship grew which led to her basically breaking things off with me and immediately started dating someone else. Anyone have any advice as to how to overcome these issues?

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Title How to deal with abandonment issues?
Author spider_1337
Upvotes 3
Comments 10
Date June 28, 2019 3:00 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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