I’ve always had an issue with being possessive. I’ve worked on it through many venues over the years and I’ve learned how to suppress it externally (as in I don’t act possessive). However, I still feel possessive emotionally. For example, if a plate tells me what she does with some other guy, it stings me (I don’t show it though). I thought having abundance of plates would get rid of the feeling, but it kind of ended up making things worse because now I feel possessive towards a bunch of girls instead of just one or two lmao.

The pain is not that big of a deal - it’s like a cough or something. It goes away eventually, but it’s still a bit of a bitch for the short period it’s around. It would be nice to get rid of it. Any ideas?