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How to get ouf of monk mode and years of MGTOW successfully? (without reverting back to BP behavior)

November 7, 2017

I’ve been in MGTOW mode for the past 4 years. The reason why is I needed to improve a LOT and I had to focus.

The improvements I made in my life are just beginning to give results now and consequently, girls begin to be interested in me again. But here is the problem: after those 4 long years, I get emotionally disturbed by any sexual or romantic relationship with a girl, I develop one-itis and I go back to simp mode where all I want is to cuddle her for hours to fill the void created by the love my feminist cunt of a mother didn’t give to me.

I’m trying to find a way out. Because of how much interactions with girls fuck me up, I feel like going back to MGTOW. I felt way happier when I didn’t have any interactions with women. On the other hand, I really really feel the need to fuck girls, touch their body, enjoy their feminine energy. I would fuck anything that has a vagina, tits and isn’t obese or has STDs. Even an overweight girl with an ugly face would do it.

Is history bound to repeat itself? Do I have to do it all over again? : be alpha, attract girls, commit to one, become beta, get crushed and traumatized, go MGTOW for some time then repeat? How can I break this circle?

So, what’s the best way to go about it all?

(prostitutes aren’t an option as of now)

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Title How to get ouf of monk mode and years of MGTOW successfully? (without reverting back to BP behavior)
Author Redasshole
Upvotes 1
Comments 6
Date November 7, 2017 8:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/how-to-get-ouf-of-monk-mode-and-years-of-mgtow.117853
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[–]2SirKolbath1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't commit to one.

I know that sounds like an overly simplistic answer, but I think it may be the best one.

Spin plates. Enjoy your time with them. It has been said multiple times that a long-term relationship is TRP on hard mode.

Women are going to take what they want or need from you at every opportunity you give them. There is absolutely no reason why you cannot, or should not, take what you want and need from them at every opportunity they give you.

Nothing in that suggests that you need to be involved in a long-term relationship if you don't want one.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Now that you're back, Read the sidebar.

If you mess up it's okay, don't beat yourself over it. so attract girls and have options. Make sure you plate all of them; once you hang out with girl #1, have girl #2 the very next day and so forth.

Let's say you mess up, look it as a learning curve and keep grinding.

[–]coloredzebra0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm assuming this is where number's game comes into play? And where further expanding our knowledge through experiences is gained?

I too seemed to have fallen off the path...I've increased my SMV, but I've come too infatuated, and realised I have a lot, (heavy emphisis) to learn...Yet at times I'm too scared to fail.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep it's a number game, put yourself out there.

You have to deep dive and learn. Reading the sidebar and not acting is simply regurgitating information.

Play around women in your SMV or Lower, and see what happens. If you're scared of failure, you're scared to succeed as well. They go hand in hand, Success derives from failure. It's all a learning curve.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Redasshole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Did write a post just for me? <3

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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