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How to launch myself into a social circle with no prior friends?

January 5, 2015

I auto-piloted my way through high school and focused completely on my own success, perhaps too much though. I spent most of my spare time in the library studying, all but ten lunchtimes in my final year I spent in the library sitting in the same seat every time. I had no friends throughout the entirety of high school, and I have pretty low standards as to what qualifys somebody as a friend.

It paid off big time and I can do literally any undergraduate university course at the top university in the state I live in. But now I've spent 3 months of my 5 month holiday sitting at home on a computer gaming and reading up on various subjects like the red pill, psychology, health/fitness etc.

I have no friends at this time, I didn't go to a single party during high school, I didn't go to the senior prom (male only school though), and I've never been kissed by a girl. I'm so low on the social hierarchy I don't even register on it, nobody knows who I am except my family (who were subject to 90% of my social interactions for the last few years). I have no reputation for anything at all, I don't exist, which could be used to my advantage.

Luckily I've been blessed with a tall body which I've been focusing on building up all holidays (4 days gym 1 day rest), I'm not obese and have no acne or physical problems. Assuming 5/10 is average in terms of looks I'ld say I'm a 6/10 but at times can reach 8/10.

I have two months until university begins which means I've got a relatively clean slate to get a fresh start. But I know people will mostly hang with people they know from high school, and then these social groups with interact with other social groups. But my problem is that I won't have a group to begin with in the first place.

So what I'm asking is; What is the best way to progress from here and how should I use my two months to prepare for university?

edit: spelling

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Title How to launch myself into a social circle with no prior friends?
Author Chad_Thundercock69
Upvotes 3
Comments 5
Date January 5, 2015 3:31 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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[–]2secret_barber4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fewer folks than you imagine will be going to school with their high school friendships in tow. Those that do, are weak and not ideal friends to surround yourself with. Continue to focus on yourself, be the best you can be and you will naturally attract similar folks ...and those looking to use you.

Basically, don't worry about it.

[–]Overzealous_BlackGuy1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I noticed you said 4 days gym 1 day rest, what exactly is the other day? Cardio?

[–]Chad_Thundercock69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sorry for the late reply, it is now only 4 days a week until I get bigger.

Monday - Arms

Wednesday - Chest

Friday - Legs

Saturday - Back + Arms

[–]aHangingChad1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lifelong friends are not made in high school. That's what college is for.

[–]PlantNutrient0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Going into university is the ultimate fresh start. You need to focus insanely on internalizing redpill truths and be able to make an impression.

Join your school's "class of ___" facebook page and start making friends. Hit up all of the hot girls you see on there, and get people to know you before you even step on campus.

I have months until Uni starts and I'm already adding girls and making plans to meet up. Same with guys, find guys you can lift with and party with. Build your own social circle, be the leader. Everyone will come in looking to meet people, and turn to you because you seem to already know them all.

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