Hi,

I am seeing a plate and she's way too into me right now, it makes me feel uncomfortable. Usually with most of my plates, they casually hint that they might want a relationship and then slowly we drift away.

However, this plate is just so into me, I want to cool things off and let her down gently.

The reason why I want to be nice to this plate is because she is a genuinely great girl. Good in bed, kinky, actually really smart with a good career.

How do you guys suggest slowly letting a plate down while minimally hurting her feelings?

I don't do particularly boyfriend type stuff with her. She's called me out for being un-chivalrous a few times (I wasn't playing any games, sometimes I'm just accidentally abrasive).

I don't like the idea that some guys suggest, of becoming super beta on purpose. I really think this can backfire if the girl really likes you.