I have been in an LTR for a little over two years now, and I have been constantly shit tested, but never had an explosive situation as last night.

When this relationship started I told her I never want to get married, that hasn't changed one bit. She said she was ok with it, until last night. She claims I wont marry her because I don't trust her (no shit, pussy isn't worth that risk). She was screeching like a banshee in my face and I held my frame, didn't scream back at her, didn't change my stance on marriage, didn't hit her, nothing but calmly telling her my stance. She then tried dragging me out of the house by grabbing my wrist which I then ripped my hand away from her (wrist grabs are easy to escape from, didn't even need to touch her). She then started searching frantically for her phone to call the police to have me kicked out forcibly (I'm not on the lease due to my dumb ass fucking up my credit years ago), but that may be a blessing in disguise. I started packing my things that I would need for the next few days and told her that if I walk out the door I won't ever come back. Not thirty seconds after I starting collecting my shit she stands in my way, pleading me to not leave and that she is sorry. She claims that she wants some commitment from me (as if paying the rent, being with her for 2+ years, and being her "rock" doesn't demonstrate that) because she is "afraid I'll leave her, because you can leave at any time Pelikahn!".

Don't get me wrong, I may pay the rent, but she cleans the house, takes care of the cats, and cooks for us all while still working ~30 hours a week.

I didn't leave that night, but I do have a friends I could stay at until I find my own place.

My question is what options do I have based on my choices? *If I stay I honestly don't believe that I can't get the point across that her behavior won't be tolerated (since I let it slide this time already by staying last night). *I can leave and go radio silent and let her drown in her own tears (we moved far from our home states and she hasn't made any friends even after being here for over six months). *I could downgrade her to a plate, but I don't see me managing that correctly as I have never spun plates before (I discovered TRP after starting this relationship [I'll be reading on that today after work.]).

All of this shit from a woman who "loves" me. AWALT.

UPDATE: I have talked with my LTR in a calm environment about why things went down the way they did. I told her how threatening me will never work in her favor in any way, and that I'm not going to marry. She said that she knows she got out of hand with her emotions and she wants to change that about herself (we'll see what the future holds). As far as her stance on marriage she claims that she doesn't want marriage, she wants me, and she thought marriage would make me stay with her and any children we may have in the future. I have since told her that my plans are to stay with her and she will be the only one to truly push me away, so our future depends on how she treats me (treat me well or I'll leave).

I noticed an increased amount of dread in her due to the fact that I remained so calm and didn't bow down to her when she tried to go nuclear by saying she wanted to split up (that was the most obvious shit test I have ever seen in my life). She commented multiple times about how I seemed to not care (I did, and it was hard to not show it) and the fact that I presented this attitude worked out in my favor. After a weekend at a friends to get the hamster spinning at Mach 5 and a conversation to re-establish some ground rules that should have been there from the start, we are back to our regularly scheduled programming. Thank you everyone, you all helped me immensely.