First off, this is a pretty insignificant situation but I’m still curious on how you guys would’ve reacted in this situation.

Background: 6 month plate, frame has been rock solid throughout. Gave her some pretty hard rules to play by if she wants to be in my life and she has obeyed so far. Pretty ideal for a plate, minimal shit tests. Listens well, submissive and obsessed with me.

Situation: yesterday she was telling me about her hike this past weekend. Went solo, car had a flat tire and she had to jump thru a few hoops to fix the situation. Irrelevant details. Anyway I dropped the line of:

“What and you never thought to call me for advice/help?”

And she responded with

“No! You wouldn’t have helped me. There’s no way you would’ve driven down to me you probably would’ve told me to call my parents.”

I just chuckled and changed topics.

I suppose the question is: how do you guys find the balance between dread and comfort? I’ve made it clear from the get go I do what I want but I don’t want my plates all depressed and thinking I don’t give a rats ass about them. Or do I? Lmk your two cents fellas.