I'm 30 years old, never had a relationship, and I feel like I'm steadily growing away from most everyone I know. Which is probably good, because I'm finally putting some distance between myself and several women I was interested in, but at the same time, I've been feeling incredibly isolated and alone lately. Hell, I barely even left my bed all day yesterday.
I'm struggling to figure out what "I should be doing", other than I know I need to be doing something with my life. Right now, all I do is go to work and come home. I'm gone from 7:30am and don't get home until 6:30pm, and because I car-pool to work, there's really no wiggle-room there (if I drive myself, I'm looking at an additional 1-2 hours each way).
At this point, when I get home, I'm lucky if I even feel like going to the grocery store.
But something's gotta give.
I'm considering moving closer to work, but to be honest with you guys, my finances would take a huge hit. And really, there's no point in moving if I can't even make the best of my current situation.
So... where do you even start?
I mean, I'm not going to be meeting anyone at or near work, because it's too far away. There's also no gym anywhere near where I live, so that's also out of the question (fortunately, the gym where I work re-opens soon, which I'm able to put in a full hour every week day). The only bar anyone near me only seems to attract a significantly older (50's and up) crowd, so not really my scene.
At this point, I'm just flying blind, man. I'm unhappy, but I don't know how to pick myself up.
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