Ive been seeing this girl (23) for 6 months. We became exclusive 2 months ago. I basically asked her to be my GF (mistake) and she said she wasnt ready because she broke up with her 3 year Ex BF 6-7months (Who just got married).mWe have been great up to here but we're having our first "fight" right now.

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Two weeks ago she was upset that we weren't hanging out as much or talking and wanted to know if I was having doubts. I simply said I thought everything was going great and it was just because we both are working more and ive been focused on my passions.

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So this past week I invited her over. We have sex twice, for the first time in 2 weeks (Haven't spent much sexual time together) and she said how amazing and special it felt. Next two days (Tuesday and Wednesday) since I know I was going to be busy the rest of the week, I invited her over. She said she had things to do so I just said okay no worries and did my own thing. Fast forward to Friday, since she said no to hanging out with me twice and didn't say lets hang out xxx instead, i let it up to her to see if she wanted to initiate hanging especially since we usually chill after she gets out of work on Friday.

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She did not initiate and instead she texted me last second she was grabbing a drink with a "friend". I knew it was a guy, specifically this one beta orbiter that has been hounding her (I looked through her texts before this), since she would have told me the name of the person if not. I simply said "Enjoy" and then ignored her for the next two days.

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While ignoring her, she called me 15 times and texted me a whole a bunch trying to contact me through twitter and iG even asking if I was "okay".

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After a big text saying "Idk if you're upset or hurt or are talking to someone else just let me know that you are okay because Im worried and I care about you." I told her to come over later.

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When she came over she was extremely upset, crying profusely and saying "how could you not just say youre okay and that you need space if that was the case. I thought you were in the hospital because of your lungs or something" (I had a collapse lung a couple years ago and get random cramps still)

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I then explained Im not butthurt that you had things to do tuesday and wednesday but then on friday when you didn't ask to hang and were short and shady with me over text and end up getting a drink with a guy one on one it looks bad on her part. She said they were just friends and how they have talked about crazy spiritual shit and it was a last second thing but since we didn't make any plans she just went with it. She said how since youre not my boyfriend, I can hang with whoever I want but that doesn't mean I will do anything to hurt you, what we have is special. I said you can hang with whoever you want but i reiterated again how it she is sending mixed signals after denying me to hang twice, then after complaining we dont hang out enough, to go hang with with a straight guy for drinks till 2am (she works at a server at a bar so she was there already) one on one on the night we always hang out.

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I asked if he was gay, she stumbled her words then said he was gay then said um actually no hes not gay. And proceeded to tell me how he asked if she had a boyfriend and she said that she was seeing me and how it was awkward after. Then she said how he asked for a kiss on the cheek and see said no and how she said they shouldnt talk anymore and how she was disappointed he felt that way.

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I said how every straight guy doesnt want to be friends they just want to fuck. I was like I know youre not stupid, didnt you think at all he was attracted to you? She said she had her doubts but just thought it wasnt going to be like that. Since I checked her text messages with him before this i saw he has tried getting her to come over to his apartment so I asked, Has he ever invited you to his apartment? She actually didnt lie and said yes a couple of times. She then proceeded to tell me how we are exclusive and she would never do anything to jeopardize us.

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Granted this kid is very beta "Good morning beautiful *hella gay emojis*, ill do anything for you :)))" type. So I doubt she was actually going to fuck him because he is super desperate but more so just wanted validation. She had another beta oribitor that she friendzoned that left for the army so maybe she was trying to replace him but honestly I dont know what to make of this. She said how her calling me and texting me shows how much she cares about me and theres

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Tl;DR: SO hung out with beta orbitor one on one for a drink knowing he wants to be more than friends, acted shady about it, In response, I ignored 15 calls and texts next two days; Says she just wanted to have a friendly convo and told the guy they shoudnt talk anymore.