Average mother who has her own home and a daughter who goes in and out (but not necessarily at these times) we're all in good spirits and I like her "always down" attitude. I can ask her to pick me up and she wouldn't mind, she even traveled 100+ miles to pick me up pre-covids. The sex is great, it's non-stop and anytime. When I'm at her place, she even cooks for me. Great average body, used to swim so lengthy but the mom bod is definitely there. Although she's not into that cougar kink shit like my other past relationships, she's more open than anyone I've experienced so far.

But it feels like I'm having to yo-yo. Sometimes she gets too antsy because I haven't spoken to her in a day and my beta is seeping in because it feels like I'd be setting myself up since it is harder to get to know anyone in these times. I'm trying to set in rules where we are more aware that I'm having to always work (I love working from home too) and that I can't always pleasure her, not even pleasure her through the phone. She lives pretty far away now so it's kind of a long distance. LTRs are never for cases like this, but it's not like we've been dating for a year.

She's not like the kind of casual girl either, even saying that she's afraid she might just get drawn in and it's better to stop. She also has not dated anyone for nine years as she was dedicated to raising her children.

Is she right about this getting too drawn in? Is this why I feel like I'm having to yo-yo? How can I keep some mutual pact, it's a long-distance anyway and we are very open with each other. Anyone had an experience like this before?