This is turning out to be a real problem for me.

Literally after seeing them 2-3 times all attraction is lost and in some cases I can’t even get hard for them. Keeping plates is pointless for me because I know it’s only a matter of time before I’m bored and become completely disinterested. It’s got to the point where I can’t even be bothered meeting women because I don’t want to put effort in for the sake of having sex maximum 2-3 times. Also means I’ll have to inevitably have the conversation where I tell them I don’t want anything more and they get upset, I just can’t be fucked with it all. Sex with women I’ve already had sex with is just super fucking boring to me.

I doubt I’ll ever meet a woman I’m willing to LTR because all my sexual desire comes from new girls, not girls I’ve already had multiple times. It’s like the total polar opposite of oneitis, which sounds good in theory, but in reality it’s frustrating. Sometimes I just want to actually like a girl enough to consider taking things further, but it’s not gonna happen at this rate.

Does anyone else have this? How do u deal with it?