I have a problem with speaking clearly and at the right tone I have a pretty deep voice which makes its harder to be heard as well any advice on how to speak better?

[deleted] · 2018-10-28T06:00:55+00:00

talk loud as fuck in a empty house or car to practice different shit at different ranges. its like fitness for your voice and controlling it.

TerminallyChill94 · 2018-10-28T05:29:12+00:00

Fellow deep voiced introvert checking in

Gooseypapa · 2018-10-28T07:40:53+00:00

"Baby lock them doors & turn the lights down low."

chazthundergut · 2018-10-28T14:33:13+00:00

You have a naturally deep voice which is very attractive to women. This is a strength not a weakness.
You aren't talkative and that is okay. Be the quiet mysterious guy with the deep voice who only speaks when he has something interesting/ important to say. You don't need to be chatty to attract women, in fact just the opposite. Again this is a strength not a weakness.
Stay relaxed. This is the most important thing. Stay calm and speak slowly but clearly. Practice it talking to your family and friends. You will need to make a conscious effort not to mumble at first, but soon it will become your default. Deep breaths. Tune in to the conversation and listen. Wait till you have something worth saying. Then speak up; slowly, clearly, and just a little louder. Take your time. Don't rush to spit out whatever you want to say.

estrogenmilk · 2018-10-28T11:06:50+00:00

Funny I havn't seen anything on this I've got a real croaky voice and at times It's hard as your voice can suddenly bellow in a room if you speak up and even when speaking clearly it's like the low vibrations drown out the noise if that makes any sense. You also can sound really monotone which can make people phase out. Doing public speaking is one thing that can help if mumbling is the issue.

rockyp32 · 2018-10-28T07:15:58+00:00

First of all, work on your introversion. Don't tell me your personality is introvert by nature. Gtfo of your comfort zone and attend social events. Talk with whomever you can and basically become comfortable. When you reach a certain point of extroversion, it doesn't even matter how you sound like or how you talk.

As for your voice, I have the same issue but only when I drink too much alcohol (I don't even know why). I find myself in situations in a loud bar discussing something with a friend or s girl and all of the sudden my voice becomes hoarse and gets even deep that it usually is. Do you think the other end of the conversation gives a fuck? Absolutely fuckimg not. To you, you may sound unclear and you have to shout and shit, but to them, you sound confident.

Get that idea out of your head. Talk in whatever tone you like and you'll see.

Bro. I'm a stutterer. Which is even worse than having a deep voice. It happened so many times that I get stuck on a sound in a word once. When I became TRP aware, the stuttering decreased significantly. But still. I still sometimes stutter but I legit don't give a fuck anymore. Some girls even smile at it and find cute. They don't mention it. And I don't come across as less confident or whateverm.i just stutter and they have to deal with it.

Man the fuck up and Stop acting like a pussy.

drnaline · 2018-10-28T11:40:10+00:00

Watch elliott hulse video about talking. One good point is speak jibberish when you're on your own, basically just blurt out words our primals used to. You will notice tone and how you express is more important than what you have to say

ransay3277 · 2018-10-28T12:37:47+00:00

Slow your speech down.

screechhater · 2018-10-28T10:16:31+00:00

Go out with the bro’s.

Get into discussion groups- class, Sunday school, work group. Whatever. Just get busy.

Reading and upping your comprehension level is needed. So is getting your thoughts on paper

Many of these idiosyncratic self conscious problems work themselves out with time but you have to work at it.

Confidence is a huge factor in vocal delivery. Confidence is built in getting busy with your life. 6x a week in the gym is a good habit that lays a solid foundation for this

Build good habits by thinking clearly on what you are going to say before you say it. Be cognizant on what it is you are going to say, before you say it, then say it. It will take a while, then it will become natural.

Like AM/AA. The more you use it the quicker your mind goes easily into that mode and delivery becomes smoother

masterpiece00 · 2018-10-28T06:24:00+00:00

If you had a deep voice it would be heard easily.

dbz0x · 2018-10-28T06:47:21+00:00

Bump.i need this 😧

imtheoneimmortal · 2018-10-28T08:52:20+00:00

Go to speech therapy, they are expert not us

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2018-10-28T15:37:51+00:00

Take a speech or debate class