It's long cuz I need to tell u how it went down, there's a tldr at the bottom.

Ok I need you guys to shed some light on this. call me a dumbass, autistic motherfucker, whatever just help me understand this shit. Confused the fuck out of me.

First time me and this chick fucked I was railing her pussy and she was giving me the gawk gawk combo 3000 and all was good. Had a great time. Was gonna try to get her spinning as plate 3.

Now here we go meeting a second time. Everything seems right, she drove an hour to my place to see me. She met when I wanted to which was after work, no date no dinner. She was going to a work dinner afterwards (or date idgaf) she's seeming compliant. We start fucking like 5 minutes after she arrives. All good.

Ok so she shows up and first thing out her mouth is "I have to go to a work function after this don't fuck up my hair". I'm thinking, I don't like this tone but seems reasonable enough. Well the whole fuck session is off kilter after that she's like bossing me around and shit. At first I'm thinking she's just trying to get fucked the way she wants cuz this is only the second time and she's trying to cum. That's cool everybody is different. But then she hits me with "sit up" "I'm too hot" "do it like this" and finally I realized this chick is just bossing me around now. It was blowing my mind cuz I've never had it go down like that during sex.

And I know u guys are gonna question my ability to fuck. Shit I started to question it as well. Literally never run into that before. I run sex god / DEVI on these bitches and previously I've had them cumming multiple times. I'm used to it and I lost frame with this chick when she started instructing me.

Im trying to kiss her and she's like "I like to be kissed like this" and her way is weird as fuck of course. I'm like sitting there like following her instructions and shit and of course she didn't get off cuz these bitches don't know what they want. She did say she can't cum when she's not relaxed.. but needless to say this is all fucked up.

We even got into an argument at one point and i think that's when I realized something was going on. She was sucking my cock and goes "you can cum if you want.... Just not in my mouth". And I was like " ok I've had enough of this you are giving me permission to cum? What you say is can I swallow daddy what the fuck is wrong with you" she basically stops and says you can cum in your hand then. And I say "look u can just leave and I promise you I won't cum in my hand"

At that moment I realized I was arguing with her and I had I lost frame for sure. Then I started to wonder... Was this some type of bedroom dominance shit test? Maybe I was supposed to just tell her to shut the fuck up. Usually I'm pretty dominant.

Finally I did do that at the end I just said bend over I'll fuck you and cum on your back if you'll just shut up for five minutes. Which is how it went.

Maybe that's what snapped her back into line? Because as she's getting ready to go she's like passionately kissing me trying to set up our next meetup but honestly I walked away from it thinking to myself that I am not sure I even want to fuck her again cuz that was way too much.

I do try to make these bitches cum but for fucks sake maybe I've met my match or something.

Really fucked with my head....

Tldr: I think I was getting a shit test during sex and didn't realize it. What the fuck was going on and how to proceed?