I would love some quick examples if you guys can help me out. I know i should practice talking to random people and trying to go deeper into conversations. But lets assume you are with a girl on a first date.

Lets say she telling me about a drink she likes, is it matter of finding specific key topics in what she is saying then asking or commenting on the next thing that brings it closer to sexual tension? Like how do i transition from one thing to the next smoothly. That is what i am having trouble with and come off as not so smooth sometimes.

I am good at touching, getting closer etc etc...but word wise, i am kind of sloppy in saying the right things to escalate it.