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I overthink situations and I’m always in my head. What’s the real solution?

August 22, 2019

I’m asking this because occasionally I can get in my head. I don’t know if I need to improve myself more or if I’m just not reading the sidebar enough, but I’m always in my head. I can usually talk with girls just fine but when it comes to expressing attraction I sometimes get in my head way too much and get nervous. Just the reality.

I don’t like this because I know truthfully she’s just a girl and just cause she’s “way hotter” than other girls I’ve talked to doesn’t mean anything different. They’re all the same. AWALT, I accept all that. But for some reason I get nervous and tend to overthink situations with women.

Is there something that can be done to not think so much?

Do I simply need to approach more and get rid of my fear and nervousness (if that’s what it is)?

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Title I overthink situations and I’m always in my head. What’s the real solution?
Author beardestbird
Upvotes 3
Comments 6
Date August 22, 2019 11:56 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/i-overthink-situations-and-im-always-in-my-head.249937
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/ctwdfr/i_overthink_situations_and_im_always_in_my_head/
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[–]FinancialThanks15 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Meditate, practice focusing on what’s in front of you

[–]beardestbird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Will start right now. Thanks

[–]pingutuxy4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Read it somewhere here, just think of her having the worst diarrhea ever.

[–]beardestbird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol. How does that help specifically? It’s kinda funny but also gross

[–]duhpenetrator 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Do it so fast, that your mind doesn't have time to come up with excuses.

[–]beardestbird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I should. Thanks. Gotta get out the comfort zone I guess

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