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I still long for love.

October 30, 2020

I have a mission. I'm in great shape. I have well developed game. I have plates. I have a career path that will make me wealthy. I practice jiu-jitsu as a hobby. I have multiple social circles.

But I still find my heart aching when I'm lying in bed with an attractive woman. I want to just stroke their hair and hug them. I want them to feel safe. I want to look them in the eyes and tell them I love them. Its dumb I know but its like I can't kill that blue pilled fantasy. I know most of the responses will be 'imagine them getting dicked down by some other guy'. But I don't even care about that, I just want to feel a deep passionate connection with another soul but I can't. I've been burned enough to know that the red pill is truth. I know the moment I start behaving like that is the moment they start to lose attraction. So I act like an asshole, I stay in frame as much as possible, I leave in the morning even though I'd be happy to just lie in bed with them all day.

How I go full Patrick Bateman and just detach from that fantasy completely?

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Title I still long for love.
Author bigtoeneedhelp
Upvotes 7
Comments 13
Date October 30, 2020 7:13 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/i-still-long-for-love.322810
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/jks717/i_still_long_for_love/
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[–]DEAagent151512 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Just get your heart broken enough times. Every failed relationship turns you into a savage, step by step

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What this guy said. When that bitch leaves you for another dude enough times you’ll find that love you’re looking for in yourself.

[–]BlondeHornyElf2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

the brutal truth right here

[–]ppvknifefight0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Stop fighting against what sane men do. Going "Patrick Bateman" is for idiots. This love for women feeling you have? Go deeper into it, but don't be a simp and control the yourself and the relationship.

Stop blaming women. You're burned in relationships because your game is ASS not because "they lose attraction."

[–]Chadster113-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]throw-away-1709-2 points-1 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Get a virgin. Mold her into what you want. She'll love you 4 it.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

where tf is he supposed to find a virgin in a western democracy

[–]idontmiind0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Post like this are beta magnets

[–]dreamville_6470 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

college freshmen, there’s enough late bloomers

[–]clickherebaby0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most girls lose their virginity 13-15. There are no virgins anymore

[–]smolzino-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That's not a blue pill fantasy. I have the girl I love sleeping in my bed as I'm typing this. Best part of my life, easily. If you find someone that really cares for you and you share that feeling, it's for me so far the highest high of my life. It's been 4 years and we still experience pure bliss just being next to each other.

Don't buy into this bs.

[–]bigtoeneedhelp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thing is I've had girls who are very attractive. Who had great personalities and I loved them for who they where aswell as for their looks. They've made a million promises to me. They've looked me in the eye and told me I'm the greatest thing to ever happen to them without me ever prompting it, then after a few months once I had let my guard down and started genuinely caring about them, cheat. I've seen it happen in my family too. I've watched two men (niether my father) devout thousands of dollars and build houses for my mother who left them like it was nothing once she got what she wanted. Every man in my family has had a divorce. Both my grandfathers left my grandmothers to start new families and the grandmothers never got over it (alpha widowed).

So I have nothing in my day to day experience to suggest that the red pill is bullshit.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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