I've been spinning plates for almost a year now. I currently have 2, but I just added a new one. She's the hottest girl I've ever fucked, which leads me to why I'm posting.

1. I'm over-invested.* When we're together I act like I should (game), but when we're apart I'm thinking too much about her delayed responses to my logistics.

  • I have dates set up this week with other girls (trying to regain abundance).

2. I think she's plating me. She acted very interested in the beginning. After we fucked the first time, she asked if I wanted kids. I told her I can't have more kids (I have two already) because I had a vasectomy. I assume she's prowling for a guy to squirt some kids into her.

I think she's less interested now, because when I try to set up logistics, she responds a day later and is often busy.

I'd like to keep plating her, so should I ignore that she's probably looking for a another guy or should I try to make fun of her (amuse and amplify + teasing)?

Feel free to call me out on anything else. I always appreciate the feedback (Iron sharpens iron).