First of all I didn’t know she had a boyfriend when I got her number and started texting more often, rather I found out after meeting him when I took her home after our date, long story. Anyways she always reciprocated my touch and psychological needs. I keep going in and out of this feeling of overwhelming uncertainty. First, we had a great time together and secondly when I asked her for a second date I specifically said I know you’re not single so this may come as a surprise to you but we should go on another date. She responds immediate and acts really into it. Am I just the better man? Is this hypergamy at it’s worst or best? Am I missing something?