One might say that everyone has its own timing, but I call that bullshit. I know I'm always late. I little bit about me:

​

- First kiss: age 16

- First time sex: age 20

- Started uni at age 20 (most ppl here start at 17/18)

- I started partying/clubing at age 24

- Graduated at 25, got a high wage paying job, but got fired after 3 years. I'm unemployed right now living off the money I made (don't worry, I'm way ok), but I don't feel like getting another job right now because I lack...purpose

- started lifting at age 26

​

Right now I'm 28 and I went on this party trip with my former uni this holiday. I barely knew anyone, and everytime people asked me about my age they'd be surprised like "wow I don't think I'll be partying when I'm 28". It was my first time at this kind of event, but everyone there in their early twenties had already attended like 3 of these. At least I got a lot of compliments about how I look 21...

​

Things I learned at this trip:

- fucking leave your FWB alone when they are partying with their friends, else you'll look needy and lose frame

- give a girl MDMA and her pussy is yours for the day

​

The bad thing is: friday things did not go well for me. I didn't know where the friends I made were, and I just coudn't hang out with anyone. I wrote a note on my phone "Kill yourself, you never fit". Too much drama, yes.

​

It sucks when you learn from youngsters, it sucks when your coworker is younger than you but make more money and act much more of a "grown man" than you do. What should I be doing actually? Any hints on goals by the time you're 28? I don't wanna miss out. Please share your experiences, much appreciated.