I’ve noticed since I take the red pill I must do all the heavy lifting, when it comes to approaching setting up dates, etc , it all feels pre determined to my own mind. I don’t “get lucky” anymore, I make shit happen. Is this sorta what the goal is? I feel there is too much to lose to be with a single women. It’s a loss to date many women as well. When I was a kid I used to get lots of female attention just for being there. Now i know this isn’t what I want generally speaking a decent women who just says I’m attractive and would like to go out seems fine with me. But if I have to do it myself, initiate contact, initiate sex, it feels like a sacrifice.