For those of you in a LTR do you guys entertain when other women make advances on you. Either through twitter. Snapchat. Other social media. Or in person?

  1. I feel like if you entertain it. Or go with it to keep your game in check. You’re just giving them validation.

“Oh he has a hot girlfriend. And still is flirting with me. Validation!” And then they stop.

2 . If you don’t and ignore it. They usually do this. They keep trying to get you to respond or show them some type of validation. And if you don’t, then they take a hint and stop. (usually but the crazy ones don’t always. At least not right away).

If you finally give in to their attempts. Refer to point 1.

So my first question is what do you guys in LTR usually do when this happens?

And just for the sake of conversation. My second question is. Do you think there’s a way to keep them into you (with out actively cheating) Incase you ever become single again. Do you think ignoring them (playing hard to get) is better for this. Or actively engaging with them is? Or what are other ways to achieve this?