I’ve had so many opportunities with women this past year but haven’t been able to capitalize on any of them because I lack experience with them. Before the year started I was unable to hold a conversation with women and was really just in a dark spot overall in life. I’ve managed to turn that all around this past year, to the point where I have multiple women ready to fuck if I just simply meet up with them and try. Only problem is I get terrible anxiety at just the thought of that because I haven’t done anything past kissing despite given the green light on multiple occasions. I guess you could say it’s just me playing it safe by kissing and not trying anything else because i’m afraid I won’t finger her or fuck her correctly but honestly i’m tired of feeling this way, I want to be free of this shit and start fucking these hoes. If it wasn’t for my mind holding me back I swear I would’ve fucked at least 20 girls by now. I’m pretty sure my fear is coming from the fact that females depend on the guy to take control and know what’s he’s doing but as a virgin with sexual trauma it complicates things especially when they assume i’m not a virgin just by how I am. Attracting females is definitely not an issue but once they’re attracted and start hinting at wanting to fuck I sort of like let my foot off the gas which results to them losing interest. I’m willing to do whatever it takes to get rid of this shit. Oh and btw i’m only 19 but this has been a issue for years.

tldr; inexperience with women is fucking up my game, unable to have sex or even finger a girl because i’m scared to fuck up so I instead run away from the opportunity. How do I overcome this?

please don’t say shit like “just do it” because if it was that simple I wouldn’t be making this post