I’m 22M, standing 5”7, Asian(can pull off a Mexican lol) I’d say I’m a little above average looking. I dress with style, I’m in college.

Been reading heavy TRP, been getting women but every time I’m about to spread their legs, my insecurity kicks in, and I go soft (usually due to my average dick size).

I was in LTR(oneitis asf) with a 5”8 mixed, thick as fuck, been with 20 dudes. First couple months my dick just wouldn’t cooperate, I couldn’t get hard at all, just nervous and literally shaking every time I’m about to fuck her. I’ve made her cum several times despite the lack of inches down there.

I think most of it had to do with my initial lack of interest in her. It was after 6months into the relationship that I began to actually care. Even then throughout the entire relationship I was talking to multiple women, so I guess technically I never really had a hard oneitis.

It’s gotten better now, I’m more confident but still, that inner fright, that anxious feelings creeps up every time I’m with a new partner that’s 7+ and my dick just wouldn’t budge when the time comes to make the move. Any advice?