Is being and looking young a disadvantage for a guy?

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-10-27T08:36:10+00:00

What are you going to do with the answer to this question

btrpb · 2019-10-27T11:21:11+00:00

Until you're 42 like me, and girls mistake your for a 30 year old and next thing you are banging 25 year olds.

Have patience. A man's value grows a lot slower than a woman's.

[deleted] · 2019-10-27T09:17:44+00:00

No. You are thinking in black and white when it is actually grey.

Appearing boyish has its own set of advantages - you can seem less threatening and more approachable to some people and people are more ready to lower their guard around you. Women included. I am speaking from experience.

Manu27uk · 2019-10-27T08:37:39+00:00

I am in the same case.

I have a baby face, and people give me 25 years younger than I actually am.

To counterbalance, i stress in a gentleman manner and i do some gym to feel strong.

Some women found that really nice, especially Asian women.

[EDIT] : https://www.realmenrealstyle.com/mature-man-style/

LilLoserFreny · 2019-10-27T12:38:54+00:00

Yes it is a disadvantage. I am in the boat so I can give you solid advice on this issue. Honestly treat it the same as you would if you were short. That primarily means if you are truly a baby faced nigga, focus on other aspects of yourself that will display maturity and age. For example, despite my boyish looks I maintain a decent body from hard work at the gym.

Basically, you’ll focus on things you can change because short of growing a bear there is not much you can do. I’m personally not able to grow a beard and I feel many baby faced people are similar so the regular advice of growing a beard is useless to people like us.

This would be the case even without a young face but especially so, you’ll have to work on your mental and develop a don’t a five a fuck attitude. Some people, women included, will give you shit for something you can’t control and assume you’re a bitch. By not giving a fuck about what they think it honestly takes most people aback and will refrain from their bullying. Now, if they continue that’s when you’ll have to put them on their place. In order for that happen you need develop a strong frame to begin with.

One last thing. You could be the best man ever and some women will still be turned off by your young looks. I can’t speak on how it is for baby faced men who are older but I do know that it is a major disadvantage for men, a disadvantage that is less so as you get older. At the end of the day there is no use in complaining and it’s a waste of time to compare yourself to other men. Just be best you can be. If you need more specific advice you can pm and I’ll be happy to assist you.

whiffofass · 2019-10-27T09:57:44+00:00

I don't think you are talking about looking youthful as I see no downsides to looking young. There are young chads with amazing features...jaw, chin, sunken in cheeks, prominent cheekbones and so forth... Sounds like you are describing the opposite of that... like a round face without any prominent features.

Plasticannihilation · 2019-10-27T10:38:17+00:00

None.

vondoom900 · 2019-10-27T13:55:54+00:00

I looked young at 25. Still got id' etc... It was a disadvantage then. Older works better for men. Looking back id have focused on myself more as all that stuff youre after ( banging everyone) will be there later if you work on yourself now.

Raleigh0311 · 2019-10-27T14:14:12+00:00

This is me. Looking young is a disadvantage when you’re actually still young. But in my late 30s and early 40s, I’ve had so much pussy thrown at me, it’s ridiculous. Just don’t get fat.

fannyfire · 2019-10-27T15:20:03+00:00

It may suck now to be young but if you take care of yourself while you’re young it pays off as you mature. Men are like wine, they can get better with age if they put themselves in the right environment. Women are the exact opposite. There is nothing better than young pussy. The older a woman gets the lower her value becomes. Women are valued for their beauty whereas men are valued for their power. A man’s power grows as he sows and tends to his land but a woman’s beauty declines as she passes her peak.

Don’t worry about who you are today. Plan for who you will become and work for that day today.

LordFlakkko · 2019-10-28T18:59:13+00:00

Yes. Now shave your hair in a horse shoe pattern and see how many women you get

Title	Is being and looking young a disadvantage for a guy?
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Date	October 27, 2019 8:34 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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