Some assumptions are going to be made in this post so bear with me if it seems like i’ve taken some leaps, but shit just aint adding up in this situation.

So last Saturday a good friend of mine had a boxing match, so I went with my friend, his ltr and we met another mate and some girls who are friends with my friends (I hadn’t met them at this point).

We watch the fight, he wins and we all go back to his house for celebrations. Amongst the three girls that were there there was one who i’ll call L. Now L had been throwing signals and flirting with me all throughout the night, this gradually escalated when we were sleeping on one of the couches, (everyone else was on the big couch and me and L were on the small one together), we were basically just kinoing the fuck out of each other all night and cuddling, this only culminated in a makeout when everyone else was asleep.

The thing is, my friend (the boxer) had something of a crush on L, think he’d been orbiting her for a bit, I could tell he was slightly pissed off at the fact she was all over me the morning after. I got L’s snapchat but haven’t said a word to her since.

Two days pass and I’m feeling guilty about basically cucking my buddy in his own house, so I hit up my other friend to go lift and I explain the whole situation to him and ask for advice. He’s understanding and basically tells me to just keep it quiet about the makeout and forget the whole thing existed. We lifted again on Thursday and haven’t spoken since.

The thing is, today is my 18th birthday and all my friends who were there last saturday have not said a fucking word to me at all today, it’s currently 8:30pm and i’m ready and waiting to go out with some other mates, but I haven’t heard a peep from them all day, which makes no sense because we’ve been pretty close for the past 2 years.

Its got my imagination going into overdrive and i’m wondering if this L has felt guilty about what she did so is trying to say I forced myself on her or something, which has caused my friends to believe it and thus not say a word to me today. I’m not gonna lie i’ll be pissed if I lose friends due to this BS, but I can’t think of a reason for guys who i’ve chilled with almost every day for the final two years of HS to just go ghost on my ass. Anyone got any explanation for this nonsense? i’m at a loss for words here.