I'm going on a bit of a "purge". Cleaning up some of my bad habits, being more selective about how I spend my time, being more mindful of not just "wasting time", etc.
Well, one of the things I'm considering is just deleting or deactivating my social media accounts (possibly even this one). I find myself checking those things a bit too frequently for my liking, and I think it gets me a false sense of "being connected" when I need to be making more effort.
Plus, to be frank, I don't photograph well, and so I wind up just not having pictures. I figure if a chick did look me up on social media, I'll look more like a loser if I just have a profile pic and share a bunch of stupid memes.
Now in fairness, I'm working towards being more active this year. Going places, doing things (like skydiving), so maybe that's the kind of shit I should keep a social media presence on and posting?
I kind of feel like just taking a break from that shit completely, though. And I definitely noticed a pattern, that the moment you connect with a chick on social media, it's like an instant buzzkill for any chemistry (maybe you become too "available" to her?).
But I'm 32, and part of me wonders if I met a chick and she asks for my insta handle or something, is it going to come off weird? Or do I just laugh it off like "I'm more about living in the moment these days, not posting shit for other people to 'like'"?
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