How do you not get it into you psychologically? I just wanted a plate, I didn't expect her to shower me with gifts and spend money on me.

Especially when one was just a casual lay.

Plate 1, we have a sort of cougar, cub dynamic. She might be older, more settled, has a house and everything and she's literally down to anything. I don't know how much she's spent on me (both monetarily and time away) messes up my ego

Plate 2, was from just a casual hook-up. She knows 100% that I see other women, and we're on the grey about it. But she brings gifts every time she comes over. HB3 (face) at best but has a great body and a nice ass

Plate 3, we're just really good friends but she's yet to learn not to be clingy. Unlike P1 and P2, she literally texts me day in and day out. She feels more like a princess (but a nympho) fulltime

Is it my fault that I do not indicate that I'm not for exclusivity? They know that I'm on dating apps with exception to P3. Additionally, their clinginess makes me unattracted, especially with P3

I'll even go far to say that I have some sort of oneitis but in a trio form. But I'd hate to just move on, they've put in a lot and I feel like an asshole. I do give back, just to make things even.

They're great lays and companions but if someone has all those 3 attributes combined (minus the shit princess complex) I'm afraid it'll mess me up. As if I'm keeping them as accessible orbiters until I find someone I really like