My logic behind this question is that since online dating is basically all about looks then it really shouldn't matter what you say. Your words can't really make you attractive unless you got the looks to back it up. But at the same time, tons of dudes are hitting these hot chicks and so you kinda need to stand out in some way, don't you? I only use hinge, I basically just tease girls and be a smart ass with my responses to their caption photos/question things.