I started going out solo to clubs and while the learning curve was steep, I'm now very consistent with it and my best nights of all time were all nights / festivals I went to solo. Most of my plates come from solo nights

From time to time I let myself get pulled into night time activites within my social circle and it's a consistent shit show. 100%. Before you say, it's the wrong people, I've done it now with about maybe 20-30 different people all together and the script is always the same. I have come to believe this is the average night life of the average man:

  • Shit logistics, no good way of getting there, no good way of getting back ( in case you'd ever pull a girl )
  • get shitfaced at overpriced bar or way too drunk pregaming
  • go to overpriced, random, loud club. Know nothing about it coming off like a tourist
  • be average looking at best, jacked dudes are so rare at my university, maybe 1 in 100, maybe!
  • dance in a circle with 8 guys, maybe 2 girls who have no intention of doing anything with these 8 guys, never socialise with anybody else there, absolutely NO concept of game, I'm talking zero. The girl could be grinding on them and they wouldn't be wiser
  • stay way too long
  • brag about the great night out and the great hangover

Only 2 people I know out of the many I got to know from various activites and my university know how to have a good night out with a good chance of pulling some girls. The rest all do the above shit 2-3 times a week.

They brag about going to different countries / cities / festivals. They literally say, "yeah, festival x is gonna be 3 nights of fucking girls all day long " but have never pulled a girl in their life, all they had were beta bux relationships. They never were the Alpha Fucks, who might pull that off at a festival. Why go to Greece just do dance like a faggot in a circle there?

I'm only gonna engage in social activities to keep the connections for work and hanging out, but doing anything beyond that is simply stupid. Is this truly how the average chump parties? why go out at all?