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Is Volunteering a Good Way to Expand Social Circle?

January 12, 2021
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I have no friends or social circle. My weekends are really boring and I want to get out and do something.

Was curious if their were people here who had success with volunteering. Did you make friends this way? Would you recommend it for someone like me?

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Title Is Volunteering a Good Way to Expand Social Circle?
Author shittyfuckdick
Upvotes 7
Comments 9
Date January 12, 2021 11:27 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]MedicalInternal3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The short answer is yes, but it might not yield close friendships, but you should do it anyway.

It depends on what you're doing, but in my experience, volunteers tend to skew older and the age difference can be a bit of a barrier to making real friendships (doesn't automatically have to be the case, but generally is). That doesn't mean you shouldn't do it though. Having weaker social connections is actually just as important as having strong friendships; you want to have both. Interacting with different types of people and getting out of your comfort zone will do wonders for your brain and improve your social skills. Finally, being involved in something without monetary reward will pay dividends in improving your social standing, your own happiness, sense of purpose and self-worth, and, in some cases, can lead to employment opportunities.

[–]Game_Tight20203 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Go out a cold approaching.

Than with those girls you meet from cold approaching throw a event preferably a weekly one that is happening anyways with or with out her and tell her to bring her friends. Befriend her friends and keep driving through her/their network.

Network marketing pussy. I do little sushi dinners or photo shoots.

Just make sure you’re the guy that doesn’t count. Don’t lead these girls on you want a relationship. Make it very clear before you even fuck the first time you just want to be their friends that they all can occasionally fuck.

Be the guy that most of the women in the group have fucked and it’s not a big deal because already in female social circles these guys already exist in them. They introduce you to their male friend chad and all of a sudden months later through gossip you find out he has already fucked your original girl you met through cold approach and about 3/7 of her friends as well. And there are different guys that have done the same already just not chad.

If one them catches feelings all of sudden you’re going to be “off limits” for her friends. You want to fuck these girls and still have a very good relationship with them all individually and as a group. You will have to wait tell that one eventually leaves the new social circle or events and her friends will be open up again. Stupid girl code shit.

These women also have a bunch of cool connected guy friends so make sure you’re meeting and befriending them also. This is how I meet, create, and infiltrate social networks.

Honestly it’s the only way.

Meet someone, invite them to a group event, tell them to bring their friends. That’s the social circle game framework 101.

[–]wastedtimes3140 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Than with those girls you meet from cold approaching throw a event preferably a weekly one that is happening anyways with or with out her and tell her to bring her friends. Befriend her friends and keep driving through her/their network.

How do you drive through their social network? Wouldn't they catch on that you're after their friends if you're asking them for their IG or phone number or whatever? Surely theres nuance to this.

[–]vazeline2002 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know but at the least you’d be making the world a better place.

[–]StarkIndustriesOner2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"I'd like you to meet my daughter timmy. Shes single"

[–]RichieTheWise0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Volunteering is great but may i ask why wouldn't you rather have a regular job? You get to meet people your own age and it pays money

[–]shittyfuckdick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I do have a regular job, a pretty good one at that. The people there are a little older and I don’t really click with them (it’s a non profit so a lot SJW). Also, I’ve been remote for like 9 months now so I don’t see anyone in person.

One of my goals right now is to study and improve my resume so I can find something even better. A good tech company with a younger crowd

[–]SkyluxTM0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you see the same people consistently? Then yes, absolutely. But don't be afraid to do the first step and talk.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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