I've been trying to swallow the pill completely, but from time to time I have my doubts, maybe because I've never been through the so called 'anger phase'. Or maybe because I'm always too skeptical... I accept reality as it is, but I need evidence for it.

I'm afraid people (including me, because I see TRP truths everywhere now) are committing confirmation bias (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias), aren't we ignoring some part of the reality just so we can see what makes sense for us? I don't want to sound like I believe unicorns exist, but I've met a few girls who had all the chances to cheat but didn't, and their boyfriends weren't chads. Maybe deep inside they wanted to cheat, but aren't woman capable of overcoming their emotions, and making rational decisions? haha

I admit when I say a few, I mean two girls. Much lower than the number of girls I saw cheating.